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It takes a third person, sometimes a complete stranger, to give a fresh perspective to life, things, ideas, to complete the incomplete", :x, Please share me your stories|--Quotes Today:-Whatever happened, it happened for good. Whatever is happening, is happening for good. Whatever that will happen, it will be for good. What have you lost for which you cry? What did you bring with you, which you have lost? What did you produce, which has destroyed? You did not bring anything when you were born. Whatever you have, you have received from Him. Whatever you will give, you will give to Him. You came empty handed and you will go the same way. Whatever is yours today was somebody else’s yesterday and will be somebody else’s tomorrow. Change is the law of the universe.--|

ॐ AIDS SUTRA - UNTOLD STORIES FROM INDIA

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Well I just came to know about this BOOK.
well I don't have much idea about its content, all I know its AIDS Sutra: Untold Stories from India, is a compilation of stories sponsored by the Bill and Melinda Gates foundation, recruited sixteen Indian authors to pen the narratives of various people afflicted by the AIDS epidemic in India.The foreword by Amartya Sen (a Nobel Laureate in the field of economics) and edited by Negar Akhavi. well
Salman Rushdie, Vikram Seth, Kiran Desai, Shobha De, Nalini Jones, Siddhartha Deb, William Dalrymple has probably contributed in this book...

Probably This book contain true facts.The book might not be just story book.

Well want to read it, but the question is am I ready to Read this book?

Are we ready to read this BOOK? 

ॐ How to Impress.

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Only 10 step to impress a guy??? and hell 27 step to impress a girl????wheres the Gender equality we talk so much??????:-B what the ****? That explain why we have more Single guy then Girl......See...Don't follow this disastrous steps below....If you want to be in love u actually need not to impress anyone. Love actually happen. This WikiHow Facts about impressing a girl/boy, Look.... All this tips doesn't work for every individual. It differ from person to person, depending on individual need and personality, either way things seems to be unfair for guys.

Steps to Impress a Guy ~ WikiHow

  1. 1
    Smile. Remember to always smile if you get near him or see him once he looks at you. ~ well this implied for everyone, Smile doesn't cost anything, and its one curve which can put many thing straight, but this does not mean guy will always fall for every girls smile.
  2. 2
    Make the first move. Most girls don't think that they should, but it's usually worth it. A guy loves to know that a girl isn't so shy being with him and is setting a comfortable environment around him. A lot of guys consider this to be a really cool thing to do, as it takes a lot of the stress off of them. ~ This is correct, well Individually I like girls who make the first move.But then again if the girl start to play hard to get game then it spoil everything, and I am sure girls also don't like hard to get guys.
  3. 3
    Ask him a question. Guys love that a girl is actually the one who flirts with him first. Once you get to know him better, don't be afraid to start giving him hugs and such because it will help the guy know you like him. ~ Well be careful if He is really in need of a HUG or else you Girl might end up as a bitch for him. I have been with many girl who give me the HUG but that never meant they wanted to Impress me. Friend do hug each other.Its normal and about the flirting thing, its tough call. well I am sure guy will not like to be flirted, he will want girl to get more serious with him,and take him more seriously rather then just casual flirting. There are other several ways to show that you are interested in particular guy rather then flirting.
  4. 4
    Compliment him. You could say, "I like your shirt," or, "I love your hair," but make it kind of casual, guys like feeling confident. ~ Would you like a guy who is not confident? and please tell him only when you really like his shirt, honesty is more important here, or you can actually gift him with one good shirt which will look good on him :D. Anyway in other word you can actually tell him about his good thing why you liked him and let him know the reason why you are trying to get close to him or else he might get suspicious specially if you are stranger to him.
  5. 5
    Act as if you're flirting, but when you go up to him, just compliment him on something you admire him for. He will feel less pressured to go to you and talk then. ~ WikiHow, why you are spoiling the image of guys....all guys dont like flirting and everyone like compliment, both the girl and the boys.
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    Make sure that he is looking, and you look at him for exactly two seconds while smiling. Don't go any longer than two seconds or else it will turn into a staring contest and that will get awkward for both you and him. ~ I think for staring contest people should watch the stupid  Indian Serial "GEET" (starring contest between MANN and GEET ). Anyway WIKIHOW????did you meant 2 second????so where she suppose to stare?? watch or the guy?...ridiculous....well but you can often look at him letting him know that you are attracted to him. It will make him more confident to approach you. Most of the time guy will make the game easy for you.:D
  7. 7
    Make sure you wear perfume.
    Everybody, guys or girls, likes someone who smells sweet, so take note to always wear some body mist or light perfume,but not too much. ~ Mandatory requirement, but sometime your natural fragrance is also attractive. unless it smell ODD, you know, sometime without DEO. You can actually take him for buying a gift for your friend and ask him to select the perfume he like. Then afterward you can start using the perfume for yourself, it will give him a hint that you are liking his choice :)
  8. 8
    Talk to him. It's simple - just make conversation. If he likes you, he might even start the conversation. ~ TRUE
  9. 9
    Don't start shaking all over and turning red when you start talking to him.
    That'll just make him uninterested in you, and he'll obviously guess that you're crushing on him, and it'll make you seem "boring". Don't make yourself seem too urgent to have him as a boyfriend, it makes you seem like your desperate. ~ Hey that wont make me uninterested, I will get an opportunity to hold the girl to give her strength, unless she faint with my touch :)) . Well too hard to get such type of girl, Cause the one who make the first approach are never shy and the one who is shy never make the first approach.
  10. 10
    If you have noticed him glancing over at you or smiling at you, try dropping a hint or asking one of your friends to tell him that you like him. This may sound like a rubbish idea, but when I told my friend who I liked and my friend and I fell out, she told him. And it turned out that yesterday he thinks I'm really nice and he wanted my number! Do not always think telling the guy is the wrong decision. ~ OH my god... this is 60's love story .What can I say? So sweet..classical drama winner. you love him just catch him and say I love you, go get him..thats my girl.


8-X8-X8-X8-X      Steps to Impress a Girl ~ WikiHow.      8-X8-X8-X8-X

  1. 1
    Be well-groomed. This is essential if you are even going to approach an attractive girl. Brush your hair, shower, wash your face, brush your teeth, use deodorant and maybe even a little cologne, and apply acne medicine daily (if you have a problem with your skin). Don't wear your pants off your butt, often called "sagging": it's not that attractive to the majority of girls. Wear clean, attractive clothes that fit. (If in doubt, get an older sister or close female friend to help you in this department.) Don't wear skin tight clothes, but don't wear clothes that are too baggy either. Girls hate that. ~ By the time you finish your makeup someone else will be dating and enjoying her.Best of luck with Grooming, you might end up with a good job in some AIRLINE company. Just be Smart and natural.
  2. 2
    Have a great attitude. Be fun to hang around with, easy to laugh with, and be outgoing. Just don't be full of yourself. A girl may like an overly cocky guy at first, but eventually, she will find it selfish. Don't try to impress everyone: girls like humble guys. At the same time, a sense of humor is always good. Girls love when guys can make them laugh. ~ Yes, impress one thats enough. or else you have to run (N*27) steps for every N number of girl...Phewwwww#:-S
  3. 3
    Show respect. If you respect everyone and give them their space, they'll all respect you. With girls, it works even better. If they see you respecting everyone, and not getting pushed around while you're at it, they will be reassured that you will treat them right. Be kind to all. ~  It work for all, even your elder, stranger, girl , guys...everyone...
  4. 4
    Have nice conversations. Try to aim for you both to be speaking half of the time, but make sure that you are saying something worthwhile. It's not attractive when only one person talks endlessly or when they say bad words. Another thing to watch for is her attention. If she isn't paying complete attention, do not repeat yourself several times. This makes girls feel you are desperate, and usually annoying. ~ True , I agree
  5. 5
    Show interest in her. Let her talk. The #1 mistake when talking to a girl is focusing on yourself. Girls are way more comfortable when they talk about common interests. Ask about their interests, hobbies, favorite books, music, etc. If she asks you a question, answer it in a few, short sentences and then redirect the question back at her. This engages her in the conversation. When in doubt, compliment her like your hair looks nice today. Even if a girl does not like you yet, complimenting her will make her feel good about herself and think positively about you. However, if she keeps redirecting the conversation back to you, talk about yourself, otherwise it seems like you don't really want to be talking to her. ~ Yes think positive about her...even if she has bad habit of over shopping....shopping is good...shopping makes guy impotent..I hope you know that.
  6. 6
    Try flirting! Don't be obsessive! If you both make eye contact, do not be the one to look away, but do not stare for too long. When you both make eye contact, just give a slight smile. Touch her arm or shoulder for a few seconds. Physical contact is a great way to show you're interested. If she seems uncomfortable, do not do it again. ~ I agree.TRUE
  7. 7
    She may look away and she might blush a little. Be careful though; you don't want to stare her down. A good move is to look away, and if she likes you she will shoot you glances. Watch for that. And be courteous. Open doors. Do kind things, girls love that. ~ Ok Never tried that..so dont have much knowledge regarding this point...Kind things, we all love that.
  8. 8
    Respect her friends and their ideas and opinions. Always speak highly of her and never talk trash about her. It will damage her reputation and yours. Hopefully then it will work both ways - she will be tolerant of your friends. Be careful not to compliment her friends too much, however. Example: You may say "Your friends seem cool. We should hang out with them and my friends some time, I think they'd get along". You may not say "Sally is so hot. She has the nicest eyes". You may think getting her jealous is a good idea, but it just makes them angry. ~ totally agree.
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    Have your friends be nice to her It's a fantastic thing when your friends don't make a total fool of you. Warn them ahead of time and avoid topics pertaining to embarrassing moments of your past or awkward jokes that make very little sense. Don't introduce her to your friends right away though. You want her to like you, not start dating one of your buddies. If your friends like to embarrass you, try to avoid them altogether. ~ thats bit tricky, thas why I like Shy girl, she will be to shy to get along with anyone new...increasing the chance to be with me more ..he he he haha ha hahah =)) 
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    Be polite to her parents. Be kind to everyone, especially them. Don't be too over-the-top charming with the parents, however, or they'll think that you have something to hide.Be willing make sure that you and her father get along as he will be looking out for his daughter. ~ Parents also ..oh my god...now how many more steps do I need to follow to impress the Girls parents??Noooo...someone spare me the torture..thats why we have arrange marriage in society.
  11. 11
    Don't criticize her. Unless she asks for constructive criticism. And even then she probably wants you to compliment her. ~ correct...true ..I agree
  12. 12
    Be romantic, but not over the top. If you've been dating for a while you may attempt a grand romantic gesture, otherwise, you'll look like a stalker. It's also okay to be a little cheesy, like giving her a bouquet of roses and a loving poem. It may sound like a bad idea, but girls will find it thoughtful if it came from your heart. A better idea than being cheesy is to really LISTEN to her and remember things she likes. Then take her somewhere she's mentioned wanting to go, or buy her the books she's been wanting and hide a little note inside. Flowers and candy are really cliche and don't really mean much since anyone can just buy someone flowers. Showing you've been listening to her wants and needs goes a LOT farther than roses!! ~ humm.....This thing happen, depends on the girl actually, as they are the one who actually control how the guy react.
  13. 13
    Start talking to her casually. If you don't know her, make friendly conversation. Ask for the time, and/or compliment her watch. Avoid throwing too many compliments about clothes or shoes around: that might make women think that you are homosexual as many gay men are fashion-forward.~ True True True
  14. 14
    Do not play "hard to get". Sure, you'll get their attention for a day or two then after a while, the girl will end up frustrated, and she'll think you don't find interest in her anymore. ~ True True True...applied for girls also..do not play hard to get, or else guy might end up frustrated.
  15. 15
    Be careful with what you say. Do not discuss bodily functions in her presence, or make jokes of a sexual nature unless she starts doing so. Also, don't discuss anything gross or inappropriate. She'll get grossed out. ~ humm...ok...I think we should rather talk the same way as we talk with our male friends considering the point of gender equality.:P Why should boys have all the fun..
  16. 16
    Hum in her presence.She might think of you whenever she hears that song. And she'll probably be impressed by your good taste in music. Some girls have actually dumped guys or stopped liking guys when they insulted the music they like. So, it's OK not to like her music, but don't be insulting her favorite singer(s) or band(s)! Try to figure out what music you BOTH like. ~  
    Oh my GOD, that would be torture. Please Be honest...if you don't like no need to say you like the music...cause the relation anyway will be temporary if you try being dishonest, well you can refrain yourself from saying or expressing your ideas in case its against situation.
  17. 17
    Start an inside joke with her! She will feel included and become closer to you. It also gives you an easy-to-come-up-with conversation starter. Try not to overuse it and kill the joke. ~
    What is Inside joke and Outside joke? I am confused I need to study on this...inside outside joking stuff
  18. 18
    End later meetings with a hug, or plans to meet some other time, if you can. Make sure to tell her that you enjoyed her company. ~ yes. or else why anyway you will be with her if you don't enjoy her...why only HUG? if she need a kiss give her one, after all she deserve it for the good time that she gave you.
  19. 19
    Tell her that you "like her" frequently. Ask her out. ~
    he he he..All guys are smart enough, no need for this advice..its in guys DNA.
  20. 20
    Touch her occasionally, like on the shoulder or hand. Be sure do not touch her private parts, however. ~ =))ha ha ha ......thats good advice DOC. We will follow your advice. well this is insane, I haven't seen this advice in the impress guy section...what if a girl suddenly touch guys private part..holy shit..what WIKIHOW thinks about guys....????ridiculous. well no one will like there private part being touched unless the relation is in that level. 
  21. 21
    Opposites attract. Be a courageous gentleman, not coy like a lady might be. Stand up for her if something is wrong. ~ yes..be the man
  22. 22
    Show your funny side. A lot of women look for sense of humor in a partner. You should however be mindful of their reactions to your jokes and avoid offensive humor. Unless they like that. Find out if she likes comedy. If she watches Comedy Central or other readily-accessible comedy, find out her favorite comedian or favorite impression and try something along the same lines for her. ~ HUmm...True
  23. 23
    Make her feel good. This is a really good thing that impresses girls. They love it when you let them know you care for them. If she's sad, just simply put your arm around her neck. Make her happy as much as you can. Flirt with her, hold her hand it will make her feel special. ~ True, unless she consider neck also a piece of her private part. Few women/girl think there whole body to be a private part. 8-|
  24. 24
    Don't ever make fun of your friends around her. If you do, it might make her think that you're a jerk. When someone makes fun of other people, it makes a woman wonder what they might be saying about HER when she's not around! ~ Not true...heee WIKIHOW, you dont know anything about girl...they like back bitching more then guys...>:D<
  25. 25
    Be honest. Do something creative, something extraordinary or something that others never do. That creates a question mark for the girl about you, and it also makes you interesting. ~ That work best in JOB to get appraisal.
  26. 26
    Be open. Don't share too many secrets with her. Sprinkle a little and don't irritate her asking repeated questions. Always keep your face glowing and charming. ~ This is good point
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    Don't ignore her. Don't ever ignore her messages such as through phone calls, text messages or Facebook. Make her feel like you always have time for her. ~ Never...never..IGNORE....that also a GIRL???Never....noooo...

ॐ The Butterfly Effect

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Edward Lorenz, an MIT meteorologist who tried to explain why it is so hard to make good weather forecasts and wound up unleashing a scientific revolution called chaos theory, He died April 16 of cancer at his home in Cambridge. He was 90.A  professor at MIT, Lorenz was the first to recognize what is now called chaotic behavior in the mathematical modeling of weather systems. In the early 1960s, Lorenz realized that small differences in a dynamic system such as the atmosphere--or a model of the atmosphere--could trigger vast and often unsuspected results.These observations ultimately led him to formulate what became known as the butterfly effect--a term that grew out of an academic paper he presented in 1972 entitled: "Predictability: Does the Flap of a Butterfly's Wings in Brazil Set Off a Tornado in Texas? The flapping of a single butterfly's wing today produces a tiny change in the state of the atmosphere. Over a period of time, what the atmosphere actually does diverges from what it would have done. So, in a month's time, a tornado that would have devastated the Indonesian coast doesn't happen. Or maybe one that wasn't going to happen, does
Chaos theory is a field of study in applied mathematics, with applications in several disciplines including physics, economics, biology and philosophy. Chaos theory studies the behavior of dynamical systems that are highly sensitive to initial conditions; an effect which is popularly referred to as the butterfly effect. 
The butterfly effect is a metaphor that encapsulates the concept of sensitive dependence on initial conditions in chaos theory; namely a small change at one place in a complex system can have large effects elsewhere. Although this may appear to be an esoteric and unusual behavior, it is exhibited by very simple systems: for example, a ball placed at the crest of a hill might roll into any of several valleys depending on slight differences in initial position. The butterfly effect is a common trope in fiction when presenting scenarios involving time travel and with "what if" cases where one storyline diverges at the moment of a seemingly minor event resulting in two significantly different outcomes.



Evan Treborn (Ashton Kutcher), who suffered severe traumas as a boy (Logan Lerman) and a teenager (John Patrick Amedori), blacks out frequently, often at moments of high stress. While entertaining a girl in his dorm room, he finds that when he reads from his adolescent journals, he travels back in time, and is able to basically "redo" parts of his past, thereby causing the blackouts he experienced as a child. There are consequences to his choices, however, that he then propagates back to the present: his alternate futures vary from frat boy to prisoner to amputee. His efforts are driven by the desire to undo the most unpleasant events of his childhood which coincide with his mysterious blackouts, including saving his childhood sweetheart Kayleigh (Amy Smart) from being molested by her father (Eric Stoltz) and harassed by her aggressive brother (William Lee Scott).
The actions he takes, and those he enables others to take during his blackouts, change the timeline in the new future wherein he awakes. As he continues to do this he realizes that even though his intentions are good his actions have unforeseen consequences. Moreover, the assimilation of dozens of years' worth of new memories from the alternate timelines causes him brain damage and severe nosebleeds. Ultimately he decides that his attempts to alter the past end up only harming those he cares about. But the focal point for all of these traumatic timelines appears to be Kayleigh. So Evan travels back in time once more to the first day he met her and by scaring her away finally succeeds in saving Kayleigh's life. He then destroys all of his journals so that he's not ever tempted again to make any more changes.
The film ends eight years in the future with Evan leaving an office building in Manhattan and passing Kayleigh on a crowded daytime sidewalk. They alternately pause and turn after spotting and passing each other. While Kayleigh seems to have only a vague intimation of having seen him somewhere before, Evan remembers her very well and allows the moment to pass without attempting to speak to her.

The director's cut of the film ends with Evan travelling back to the day of his birth, and as a fetus, strangles himself with his umbilical cord. A voice-over replays of the fortune teller saying that he doesn't have a soul and was never meant to have been born and his mother saying she had miscarriages before him. The resulting time-line shows his friends and family happier without him. Another voice-over replays his mother's confession (originally heard when visiting the fortune teller earlier, saying that he was the third of three brothers, the other two having died during birth), this time altered to her telling her fourth child, now a daughter, that she survived while her three children before her did not. This is because his father kept going back in time trying to save one of his sons to make sure a child was born, unknowingly making them like him, making Evan not the cause of the butterfly effect but the butterfly effect itself. It then shows Evan's mother with a new husband with a daughter and Kayleigh marrying someone she met in her new life.
Another alternate ending shows Evan and Kayleigh stopping on the sidewalk when they cross paths. They introduce themselves and Evan asks her out for coffee.
Another ending is similar to the one shown in the film, except this time Evan, after hesitating, turns back and starts following Kayleigh.This ending was utilized in the film's novelization, written by James Swallow and published by Black Flame.
The final alternate ending is again similar to the previous one, Evan and Kayleigh hesitantly stop on the street when they cross each other but do not meet each others gaze and continue on their original path.

ॐ SUPERBUG (New Delhi) - it was an error

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Superbug should not have been named New Delhi: Lancet Editor


New Delhi, Jan 11 (PTI) The editor of leading medical journal Lancet today apologised for the naming of an antibiotic resistant superbug after the Indian capital, saying it was an error.
A report in the magazine last year about the superbug New Delhi metallo-beta-lactamese-I originating in India had created an uproar in the country.
"The science behind the report was very strong, sound and correct. But it should not have been named after a city," Dr Richard Horton told reporters here.
"It was an error and I apologise for it. I think it should be renamed, but it should be up to the microbiologists (who discovered the superbug)," he said.
After the article was published last August, with the Health Ministry came out with a hard-hitting statement against it, saying the contents of the article present a "frightening picture which is not supported by any scientific data".
Its lead author Karthikeyan Kumarasawamy also dismissed as hypothetical the conclusion that the bacteria was transmitted from the country and said some interpretations were made without his knowledge.
He also said some interpretations in the report were written without his knowledge.
Karthikeyan, research student at AL Mudaliar postgraduate Institute of Basic Medical Sciences, co-authored the research article with Timothy Walsh, published in Lancet.
The Department of Health in the UK had put out an alert on the issue, raising the hackles of the Indian medical fraternity.

ॐ My story ~ by Sumita.

Published by The Name is Bizit | under on 12:17 AM


This is my story---alone...alone...alone...&...alone!
Want someone to share everything and in every tone.
I always wanted something which I knew can never be mine.
Tried my heart to make understand but couldn't bring to fixed line,


My heart always wishes to get which my life doesn't want,
I always tried to change its habit but knew that i can't,
Some say listen to your heart but do according to your brain,
I was a confused person so couldn't make a definite lane.


I want many thing but don't know how to accept,
Though I knew I will never get as my life is only to lament.
I always wanted to know what is going to happen tomorrow,
So my life never showed me anything except sorrow,


I  am a person who doesn't have a single bit of patience,
So I couldn't enjoy my life totally as it never gave me license.
I always waited for tomorrow and for every single next word.
Thats why so far my story never moved forward.