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It takes a third person, sometimes a complete stranger, to give a fresh perspective to life, things, ideas, to complete the incomplete", :x, Please share me your stories|--Quotes Today:-Whatever happened, it happened for good. Whatever is happening, is happening for good. Whatever that will happen, it will be for good. What have you lost for which you cry? What did you bring with you, which you have lost? What did you produce, which has destroyed? You did not bring anything when you were born. Whatever you have, you have received from Him. Whatever you will give, you will give to Him. You came empty handed and you will go the same way. Whatever is yours today was somebody else’s yesterday and will be somebody else’s tomorrow. Change is the law of the universe.--|

ॐ Nothing Special but Something Special

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someone was trying best to achieve perfection
guess who? 
Not me ! But....I..
seriously..No problem ..
sMileeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee..bye....



Thanks to my MOTOROKR E6
(no criticism allowed, and I am not a photographer)

ॐ Conflicts

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Today I realized how lonely I am. Few year back things were happening so fast for me. It felt like all 10 Years experience has been showered in 10 month. It helped to make my choice. Yes choice, they r very important, as they decide your life. Sometime it’s very tough to make your choices. The most obvious choices, which probably are the correct choices, turn out to be the wrong one, sometime the wrong choices you made, out of all odd turn out to be the correct one.

Life is Funny Events". Fun always start when human can’t do certain things they need to do .Life consist of many such incidence, it’s like instance of events, yes, I would love to title it as "IOE:- Instance of Events". Many such small IOE’s including few big IOE. As long as someone is capable of doing certain thing, then either the incident will go silently unnoticed, or they will be heard everywhere.
For instance one girl, after she finishes her graduation, fail to qualify the campus interview, will act as if the companies was not good enough for her, somehow you will find her saying “oh yea, I went for the interview, but they had immediate joining and I need to go home”, so I quitted, you know, and they also was asking me to work on Saturday and Sunday, so I quitted.
For instance one boy failed to pass certain subject in exam, will act as if the fault was of the question paper, most of the time you will find him saying “Oh man, damn tough subject, even the question paper was also strange, or the best response, Hell man I wrote, but this bloody university, ahhm, I don’t know how they check the paper.”.:))
For another instance you will find people advising you on certain subject who himself/herself don’t have hands on experience on the subject, to make the instance more funny you yourself don’t know whether to take the advice or not.:-/


Everyone is born creative in this world, but here we make sure to crush those qualities in order to keep the person low, so that he or she can easily be controlled by our wish, well shall I say societies wish or whatever.


Real fun begins when people start living someone else’s life. You know what I mean, when especially people start copying the film-stars and rock-stars.


“Ghajini”:- Suddenly all the hairs started vanishing.
“Dabbang”:- Amazing effect, moustaches are back.
“Dev D”:- Vodka everywhere, great boon to alcohol and drug market.
“Inception”:- People are seen less in work more in dreams.


Anyway I don’t understand one thing, if I have to cut my hair why do I need to wait for the release of the movie Ghajini??? If I have to grow moustache why do I need to wait for the movie Dabbang?? If I want to trip on ACID why do I need wait for DEV-D .Well may be for once I am wrong, no guys wait for DEV-D, especially in this case.>:)


Education, yes it’s very much important, but one should know what education one should pursue for. We do have pressure to finish of out matriculation then finish of our +2 and then study hard for entrance to get admission in well known college then finish the graduation.(:|


Mom and DAD, fine, it’s done, now what’s next? Go for Job or for Master degree?


Now Indian education system has become outdated and needs to be changed. Education today should encompass knowledge and skills. It should help individuals to understand and use their ability to the maximum.
Marks and grades have created undue pressure that is leading many to face depression or commit suicide. Moreover whatever is learnt is hardly useful in future endeavors unless it is a professional course.
Parents on the other hand should avoid pressurizing their children for better marks or grades. They should be more observant about their wards' abilities, likes and dislikes. Just be their friend and guide. Provide them with information that will help in deciding the best course for future education.


Hunting for Job is not easy, it’s pretty tough; all the brothers and sisters out there who are suffering from this experience will know the pain very well. So higher education is important, but now how do u grade which one is higher? ME, MCA kind of education or specialization (CISCO, Microsoft or Mainframes) kind of education,


Complicated...Isn’t it? Choice is yours. You have to decide.


Conflicts in mind will always be there as long as mind is alive, but to make decision is the toughest part as we don’t know whether the decision is correct or wrong. We can never figure out the result looking forward into future, but when you have travelled the path, when you look backward you can see the clear picture.


BEAUTY , now that’s something can’t be changed, the way we are born is god gifted and we should respect each of us for the way they are, but beauty of inner mind and heart is something in our hand. People are not beautiful if they are beautiful from outside, the real beauty lies inside. We all should seek the real beauty inside.


LOVE, You all might be familiar with this word. So I will not discuss about what love is all about, our film industry is expert in this area. What I want to reflect here is what love is not about. When you love someone you stay with that person for ever unless deaths do them apart.
It’s not cool for the Guys who keep on changing girl friends and girls, who keep on changing boyfriends, because it’s tougher in life to be together in one loving relation rather than frequent breakup.
Also people it’s not cool who think twice before falling in love,
Specially girls who think the whole life including marriage, family problem and everything before getting into a loving relationship, and guys it’s also not cool who does not think at all the factors before getting into relationship.
Still if you fall in love it’s not cool unless you fight hard till the end to make the relationship last despite of all external problems.:x


BREAKUP, why this is needed if u r in love? If you truly love someone then it is not needed. Cause in the world you can always figure out alternative to stay together if only you love the person.


Conflicts in mind will always trouble you.


Say you work in place B and the girl you love study in Place B. Now both of you wants to be in one place together, as long as things are running smooth its fine, say suddenly company need to downsize and they asked you to move to place C or quit the job which is far away from place B, the person you love start crying and tell you she will die if u leave her here alone, now on the other hand if you lose your job surely you will lose her since anyway her parents are not going to give her to you if u don’t have a job  So what you do? What you decide? You move out to Place c or you take the risk of staying in place B and lose the job when you know market is downsizing and no other external job might be available???


How u decide is very important, it differ from different to different people, but then how u decides what to do?
When your brain and everything are saying:”you should do this way” but then your heart is saying “you should do the other way”.
This is one of the biggest conflict, whom to listen, brain or heart? Certainly for us listening to brain is more intelligent then listening to heart, isn’t it? But it’s only intelligent, which always not the best. Listening to heart is surely the foolish way, but it’s not always the worst.>:D<


Life teaches you what the schools and colleges fails to teach you. Most importantly if you are not hungry to learn you will fail to learn in college also.


I always felt in heart it’s more worth to learn from life then from colleges.
Have you felt the same?


Don’t get carried away, it's foolish idea, but then again the conflicts remain, whom you will listen?

ॐ AB & PU - THE DREAM

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Pu had dream, a dream that he never understood what it is, where it is. He tried  to interpret his own dream but in vain. Its true he was going through bad phase with Ab, he never wanted to fall in love with her, but seeing the madness in her eyes, he has very little hope left to save himself from the power of love. Many year passed, together they fought, they loved, they enjoyed, they suffered, they cried , they laughed. But today is different day. She is not fighting, she is not crying. Her mobile is being flooded with SMS from someone else. 
She is busy replying them, he checked her mobile, found out "Miss you darling", his mind reflected back to those days when only 1 person used to send such SMS, and that person was him. That night he had dream, he was running across big fort, it was unique, beautiful, and very big. One girl behind him, running, running to catch him, but more close she comes more far he run away. Within he wall of the fort both of them are running, but why? For what? Its not like he didn't noticed the girl, first time when he saw her, he felt like holding her in his arm, he felt like adoring her, kissing her...Love her, but more near she comes more he run away from her. Some unknown reason keep him going far away from her...something...which he is afraid of, the fear. What it can be? 


Is it the the fear of loosing her that keeps him running away from her? So that she can never get him and if he never get her there will be no question of loosing her? or is it the deep love that he wants to feel in her, deep love , the love which she had for him ,is it strong enough to make her run until he is tired of running away and start loving her holding her in his arm.


Suddenly she vanished in the maze of the fort, he became tensed and worried. It seems the whole world came crashing down on him when he lost her, where is she? He started searching for her, but not able to find her in the maze. He started to weep, suddenly she caught him off guard. Now he has nowhere to run, he wanted to run away but she hold him tightly in her arms. well surely she is not strong enough to hold him with her hand but its not the strength of her hand, its the strength of her love that's holding him back. For a instance he felt the time stood still. 


He wanted the time to stop forever and ever so that he can never go away from her.


suddenly he felt kiss in his head, he woke up, found Ab sitting beside him, kissing his forehead wrapping him with her arm. 


And rain continue to pour heavily outside with noise of thunder.

ॐ Help them

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Sometime it's worst to be the good guys,
Vision is not what we see with our open eyes,
Why not to taste how it feels to be the bad guys?


Backstabbers are always there, 
Be the Bad guy then everyone will fear,
You never know until your back is stabbed there.


They say be SELFISH in life to live,
Selfishness is not living as one wishes to live,
Selfishness is asking others to live as one wishes to live.



They are not what you see,
Mix in the crowd and enjoy the sea,
They forget the help done to them,They still need help, please help them.





ॐ Different stroke...

Published by The Name is Bizit | under on 5:32 PM
Recently visited a place, which is actually Girls shopping paradise, well I noticed few unique way of displaying products...:) thought of sharing with you all

I was unsure what trick was that?

I was wondering which one was on sale, "the bike" or "the Dress":-S

The Legs, are they also included in the Merchandise list.?

This one is little tricky, cause the section in the right was for girls, I was observing for sometime, 
GIRLS are looking less for the cap but more on the thing behind the cap, that also indirectly :

Never Mind, This one is my idea

This one will continue, since I am not able to upload few pic due to some firewall issue, Probably have to wait till my personal connection is up&working which is down due to some technical reason...:).

ॐ News Today ~ Barack Obama birth certificate.

Published by The Name is Bizit | under on 10:20 AM
News today...



Rest you can read online.....................................

ॐ Nine Unknown MAN ~ and the secret of UFO.

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The Nine Unknown Men of ashoka a secret society of India dating back to two millennium is the greatest Mystery in India which is believed to be the indian version of Atlantis dating back to 273 BC to the regime of the ashoka indian emperor the grandson of Chandragupta who was the first person attempted to unify India... ashok was hindu by birth and converted to Buddhism after the battle of kalinga which claimed around one lakh man.


when war was over Ashoka ventured out to roam the eastern city and all he could see were burnt houses and scattered corpses. This sight made him sick and he cried the famous quotation, "What have I done?" Upon his return to Pataliputra, he could get no sleep and was constantly haunted by his deeds in Kalinga. The brutality of the conquest led him to adopt Buddhism under the guidance of the Brahmin Buddhist sages Radhaswami and Manjushri and he used his position to propagate the relatively new philosophy to new heights, as far as ancient Rome and Egypt.



Emperor founded he society of the Nine to preserve and develop knowledge that would be dangerous to humanity if it fell into the wrong hands. Some versions of the story include an additional motivation for the Emperor to conceal scientific knowledge: remnants of the Rama Empire, an Indian version of Atlantis, which according to Hindu scripture was destroyed by
advanced weaponry 15,000 years ago.


Asoka founded the most powerful secret society on earth: that of the Nine Unknown Men. It is still thought that the great men responsible fro the destiny of modern India, and scientists like Bose and Ram believe in the existence of the Nine, and even receive advice and messages from them. One can imagine the extraordinary importance of secret knowledge in the hands of nine men benefiting directly from experiments, studies and documents accumulated over a period of more than 2,000 years. What can have been the aim of these men? Not to allow methods of destruction to fall into the hands of unqualified persons and to pursue knowledge which would benefit mankind. Their numbers would be renewed by co-option, so as to preserve the secrecy of techniques handed down from ancient times.


Each of the Nine is supposedly responsible for guarding and improving a single book. These books each deal with a different branch of potentially hazardous knowledge. Traditionally, the books are said to cover the following subjects:

  • Propaganda and Psychological warfare.
  • Physiology, including instructions on how to perform the "touch of death." One account has Judo being a product of material leaked from this book.
  • Microbiology, and, according to more recent speculation, Biotechnology. In some versions of the myth, the waters of the Ganges are purified with special microbes designed by the Nine and released into the river at a secret base in the Himalayas.
  • Alchemy, including the transmutation of metals. In India, there is a persistent rumor that during times of drought or other natural disasters temples and religious organizations receive large quantities of gold from an unknown source. The mystery is further deepened with the fact that the sheer quantity of gold throughout the country in temples and with kings cannot be properly accounted for, seeing that India has few gold mines.
  • Communication, including communication with extraterrestrials.
  • Gravitation. Book 6 The Vaiminaka sastra is said[Please name specific person or group] to contain the instructions necessary to build a Vimana, sometimes referred to as the "ancient UFOs of India."
  • Cosmology, the capacity to travel at enormous speeds through spacetime fabric, and time-travel; including intra- and inter-universal trips.
  • Light, the capacity to increase and decrease the speed of light, to use it as a weapon by concentrating it in a certain direction etc.
  • Sociology, including rules concerning the evolution of societies and how to predict their downfall.
“The Secrets of Gravitation!” This book, known to historians, but not actually seen by them dealt chiefly with “gravity control.” It is presumably still around somewhere, kept in a secret library in India, Tibet or elsewhere. Well it make sense why Ashoka wants to keep it secret since he was aware of devastating wars using such advanced vehicles weapons that had destroyed the ancient Indian “Rama Empire”. The manuscripts were also said to reveal the secret of “antima”; “the cap of invisibility” and “garima”; “how to become as heavy as a mountain of lead.” 
probably for Indian scientist it was not serious , but it became more valued  when Chinese announced that they were including certain parts of the data for study in their space program! This was one of the first instances of a government admitting to be researching anti-gravity.

The seven greatest capital cities of Rama were known in classical Hindu texts as The Seven Rishi Cities According to ancient Indian texts, the people had flying machines which were called “Vimanas.”
There seems to be no doubt that Vimanas were powered by some sort of “anti-gravity.” Vimanas took off vertically, and were capable of hovering in the sky, like a modern helicopter or dirigible. Bharadvajy the Wise refers to no less than seventy authorities and 10 experts of air travel in antiquity. These sources are now lost.
We can see that Nazis developed the first practical pulse-jet engines for their “buzz bombs.” Hitler and the Nazi staff were exceptionally interested in ancient India and Tibet and sent expeditions to both these places yearly, starting in the 30′s, in order to gather esoteric evidence that they did so, and perhaps it was from these people that the Nazis gained some of their scientific information!
According to the Dronaparva, part of the Mahabarata, and the Ramayana, one Vimana described was shaped like a sphere and born along at great speed on a mighty wind generated by mercury. It moved like a UFO, going up, down, backwards and forwards as the pilot desired. In another Indian source, the Samar, Vimanas were “iron machines, well-knit and smooth, with a charge of mercury that shot out of the back in the form of a roaring flame.” Another work called the Samaranganasutradhara describes how the vehicles were constructed. It is possible that mercury did have something to do with the propulsion, or more possibly, with the guidance system. Curiously, Soviet scientists have discovered what they call “ageold instruments used in navigating cosmic vehicles” in caves in Turkestan and the Gobi Desert. The “devices” are hemispherical objects of glass or porcelain, ending in a cone with a drop of mercury inside. It is evident that ancient Indians flew around in these vehicles, all over Asia, to Atlantis presumably; and even, apparently, to South America.
Well may be UFO siting can be understood, it might be those old airship making some kind of trip. Unknown alloys have been revealed in the ancient palm leaf manuscripts.The writer and Sanskrit scholar Subramanyam Iyer has spent many years of his life deciphering old collections of palm leaves found in the villages of his native Karnataka in southern India. One of the palm leaf manuscripts they intend to decipher is the Amsu Bodhini, which, according to an anonymous text of 1931, contains information about the planets; the different kinds of light, heat, color, and electromagnetic fields; the methods used to construct machines capable of attracting solar rays and, in turn, of analysing and separating their energy components; the possibility of conversing with people in remote places and sending messages by cable; and the manufacture of machines to transport people to other planets!

Well mystery continues...:-SS


ॐ Worldcup 2011 - Cricket

Published by The Name is Bizit | under on 12:19 PM
Well I hope most of the people will be aware of the schedule and the venue, For me no difference since I am no more interested in Cricket. Well but I thought to post the new information which I assumed, which might be true or might be wrong. Well this time it seems INDIA is going to win. Based on few factors and scenario the condition pointing toward the win of  INDIA. well either way if INDIA win also its not going to change my outlook toward cricket, I will still be not interested in it and if INDIA loose also nothing much differnce going to make.

well what is the big deal if India win or loose?actually it is a big DEAL.

Hummmmm I think I am going paranoid...

well you all must be thinking why I am saying so, well that job I am leaving up to you.

I am sure you will find out why? 

ॐ Orkut or Facebook

Published by The Name is Bizit | under on 10:41 PM

Since last year my friends are insisting to join Facebook. Officially long long ago I joined Orkut . I thought of joining facebook but I was not getting any reason to join it. It seems now facebook is more popular in India then orkut, so what shall I do? Shall I join or Shall I not? 
I can join, no worry as its free social networking site, but still I was thinking why to join. Shall I take anything that comes to me for free? Obviously not. 
I thought to check out the facebook once, so I used my friends facebook for sometime, well as you know first impression is the last impression. Facebook didn't attract me.I do feel there are many Apps in facebook, well I am not interested in it.Somewhere I felt GUI in orkut was far better the facebook along with its security,most importantly I created one google account which gave me access to all its services, orkut, blog, gmail, picasa...etc etc....well I found no reason to join facebook.


Everyone has there own choice, my friends told "cummon facebook and myspace is more prominent in market then orkut". Well may be,I am not interested to collect DOMINO S pizza free coupon which probably was distributed once on facebook, so spare me the torture.Facebook did used AJAX concept very well so do the NEW orkut. when I ask them why facebook? None of them has proper answer,except for one "facebook is more popular."


unsure why facebook so popular I thought to check out some user review on orkut vs facebook. I found few good reviews


1.) orkut is in just 1% of the world market, specially in india, while facebook n myspace are grabbing about 11.5 % of world market. But still Orkut is much more user friendly.. as far as security is concerned one can always hide them in orkut but if one want to complete hid oneself then its better to be out of social networking
2.) I love Orkut more coz i have more friends in Orkut.. Its easy to use.. as always Google makes GUI easier than anyone else.. Facebook was too crammed before .. but now most of the ppl are getting used to it. Orkut is not heard of , here in US, by many.. thats the main disadvantage of Orkut.. whereas Facebook is very popular and made much popular through news channels especially during this election period, facebook is cashing the opportunity... I wish Orkut makes its way in Media as well to gain its popularity... Well, for me..im a die-hard Google fan.. So i go for Orkut..
3.)Facebook is better than orkut, as it has lot of applications than orkut and easy interactable
4)I have both account, on orkut and facebook but somehow i find orkut more interesting.
5) if u connected from orkut to facebook u can check the facebook is fetching ur friends lists from orkut only… not only facebook watever social network it may be.. its jus fetching data from ur gmail account note this.. how ever east or west orkut is the best… in many countries orkut is not allowed n its completely banned.. if they allow orkut in all countries.. no one can beat orkut…. tin tin ti tin


well now I am clear why facebook is more popular then ORKUT.Anyway My friends are all on orkut and if anyone is having pain to login on orkut then there are other ways to get in touch :)


Now you dont want to computerise your relationship also? I am sure you will not love to get married on computer. How will you like if your spouse is also connected to you via computer. So at night when you go to sleep you need to take the computer in place of your spouse imagining your spouse is connected with it.:))


Wake up SID'S before its too late.

ॐ Dash-board Update

Published by The Name is Bizit | under on 12:04 AM


Busy schedule for Last few Month. I decided to stay away from Blogging. Gradually I felt I Should Stop blogging, as apart from my personal interest I was getting no other reason to keep on posting in this BLOG. 


Well I guess I have a reason to continue with my posts >:D<

It seems apart from INDIA I have many reader from US and Brazil. Nice to see that few many are from Germany,Ukraine and Turkey. Well I never expected to get visitor from turkey. Anyway I can also see cometbird and jakarta client was used to browse my page. Well I am not aware if my design was appropriate for those browser.I have less knowledge in that area. Amazing part is apart from common windows operating system Machintosh and Linux was also used to view my page..I don't know about linux, must have been a bad experience for the reader, well thats explain why we have only 3 visit with Linux ..LOL ...:)). OKayyyyy , so what we have , Iphone also..29 visit from Iphone...cooooool....I think I will continue Blogging.

 Lets check out the top 10 POST viewed.


Seems Indonesian fisherman was liked by many people. Oh god. Anyway he is famous guy.



So, FAQ page was also used, good. I thought nobody probably bothered to read that page. 

This Update was till 02 February 2011

ॐ AIDS SUTRA - UNTOLD STORIES FROM INDIA

Published by The Name is Bizit | under on 11:30 PM
Well I just came to know about this BOOK.
well I don't have much idea about its content, all I know its AIDS Sutra: Untold Stories from India, is a compilation of stories sponsored by the Bill and Melinda Gates foundation, recruited sixteen Indian authors to pen the narratives of various people afflicted by the AIDS epidemic in India.The foreword by Amartya Sen (a Nobel Laureate in the field of economics) and edited by Negar Akhavi. well
Salman Rushdie, Vikram Seth, Kiran Desai, Shobha De, Nalini Jones, Siddhartha Deb, William Dalrymple has probably contributed in this book...

Probably This book contain true facts.The book might not be just story book.

Well want to read it, but the question is am I ready to Read this book?

Are we ready to read this BOOK? 

ॐ How to Impress.

Published by The Name is Bizit | under on 11:46 AM

Only 10 step to impress a guy??? and hell 27 step to impress a girl????wheres the Gender equality we talk so much??????:-B what the ****? That explain why we have more Single guy then Girl......See...Don't follow this disastrous steps below....If you want to be in love u actually need not to impress anyone. Love actually happen. This WikiHow Facts about impressing a girl/boy, Look.... All this tips doesn't work for every individual. It differ from person to person, depending on individual need and personality, either way things seems to be unfair for guys.

Steps to Impress a Guy ~ WikiHow

  1. 1
    Smile. Remember to always smile if you get near him or see him once he looks at you. ~ well this implied for everyone, Smile doesn't cost anything, and its one curve which can put many thing straight, but this does not mean guy will always fall for every girls smile.
  2. 2
    Make the first move. Most girls don't think that they should, but it's usually worth it. A guy loves to know that a girl isn't so shy being with him and is setting a comfortable environment around him. A lot of guys consider this to be a really cool thing to do, as it takes a lot of the stress off of them. ~ This is correct, well Individually I like girls who make the first move.But then again if the girl start to play hard to get game then it spoil everything, and I am sure girls also don't like hard to get guys.
  3. 3
    Ask him a question. Guys love that a girl is actually the one who flirts with him first. Once you get to know him better, don't be afraid to start giving him hugs and such because it will help the guy know you like him. ~ Well be careful if He is really in need of a HUG or else you Girl might end up as a bitch for him. I have been with many girl who give me the HUG but that never meant they wanted to Impress me. Friend do hug each other.Its normal and about the flirting thing, its tough call. well I am sure guy will not like to be flirted, he will want girl to get more serious with him,and take him more seriously rather then just casual flirting. There are other several ways to show that you are interested in particular guy rather then flirting.
  4. 4
    Compliment him. You could say, "I like your shirt," or, "I love your hair," but make it kind of casual, guys like feeling confident. ~ Would you like a guy who is not confident? and please tell him only when you really like his shirt, honesty is more important here, or you can actually gift him with one good shirt which will look good on him :D. Anyway in other word you can actually tell him about his good thing why you liked him and let him know the reason why you are trying to get close to him or else he might get suspicious specially if you are stranger to him.
  5. 5
    Act as if you're flirting, but when you go up to him, just compliment him on something you admire him for. He will feel less pressured to go to you and talk then. ~ WikiHow, why you are spoiling the image of guys....all guys dont like flirting and everyone like compliment, both the girl and the boys.
  6. 6
    Make sure that he is looking, and you look at him for exactly two seconds while smiling. Don't go any longer than two seconds or else it will turn into a staring contest and that will get awkward for both you and him. ~ I think for staring contest people should watch the stupid  Indian Serial "GEET" (starring contest between MANN and GEET ). Anyway WIKIHOW????did you meant 2 second????so where she suppose to stare?? watch or the guy?...ridiculous....well but you can often look at him letting him know that you are attracted to him. It will make him more confident to approach you. Most of the time guy will make the game easy for you.:D
  7. 7
    Make sure you wear perfume.
    Everybody, guys or girls, likes someone who smells sweet, so take note to always wear some body mist or light perfume,but not too much. ~ Mandatory requirement, but sometime your natural fragrance is also attractive. unless it smell ODD, you know, sometime without DEO. You can actually take him for buying a gift for your friend and ask him to select the perfume he like. Then afterward you can start using the perfume for yourself, it will give him a hint that you are liking his choice :)
  8. 8
    Talk to him. It's simple - just make conversation. If he likes you, he might even start the conversation. ~ TRUE
  9. 9
    Don't start shaking all over and turning red when you start talking to him.
    That'll just make him uninterested in you, and he'll obviously guess that you're crushing on him, and it'll make you seem "boring". Don't make yourself seem too urgent to have him as a boyfriend, it makes you seem like your desperate. ~ Hey that wont make me uninterested, I will get an opportunity to hold the girl to give her strength, unless she faint with my touch :)) . Well too hard to get such type of girl, Cause the one who make the first approach are never shy and the one who is shy never make the first approach.
  10. 10
    If you have noticed him glancing over at you or smiling at you, try dropping a hint or asking one of your friends to tell him that you like him. This may sound like a rubbish idea, but when I told my friend who I liked and my friend and I fell out, she told him. And it turned out that yesterday he thinks I'm really nice and he wanted my number! Do not always think telling the guy is the wrong decision. ~ OH my god... this is 60's love story .What can I say? So sweet..classical drama winner. you love him just catch him and say I love you, go get him..thats my girl.


8-X8-X8-X8-X      Steps to Impress a Girl ~ WikiHow.      8-X8-X8-X8-X

  1. 1
    Be well-groomed. This is essential if you are even going to approach an attractive girl. Brush your hair, shower, wash your face, brush your teeth, use deodorant and maybe even a little cologne, and apply acne medicine daily (if you have a problem with your skin). Don't wear your pants off your butt, often called "sagging": it's not that attractive to the majority of girls. Wear clean, attractive clothes that fit. (If in doubt, get an older sister or close female friend to help you in this department.) Don't wear skin tight clothes, but don't wear clothes that are too baggy either. Girls hate that. ~ By the time you finish your makeup someone else will be dating and enjoying her.Best of luck with Grooming, you might end up with a good job in some AIRLINE company. Just be Smart and natural.
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    Have a great attitude. Be fun to hang around with, easy to laugh with, and be outgoing. Just don't be full of yourself. A girl may like an overly cocky guy at first, but eventually, she will find it selfish. Don't try to impress everyone: girls like humble guys. At the same time, a sense of humor is always good. Girls love when guys can make them laugh. ~ Yes, impress one thats enough. or else you have to run (N*27) steps for every N number of girl...Phewwwww#:-S
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    Show respect. If you respect everyone and give them their space, they'll all respect you. With girls, it works even better. If they see you respecting everyone, and not getting pushed around while you're at it, they will be reassured that you will treat them right. Be kind to all. ~  It work for all, even your elder, stranger, girl , guys...everyone...
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    Have nice conversations. Try to aim for you both to be speaking half of the time, but make sure that you are saying something worthwhile. It's not attractive when only one person talks endlessly or when they say bad words. Another thing to watch for is her attention. If she isn't paying complete attention, do not repeat yourself several times. This makes girls feel you are desperate, and usually annoying. ~ True , I agree
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    Show interest in her. Let her talk. The #1 mistake when talking to a girl is focusing on yourself. Girls are way more comfortable when they talk about common interests. Ask about their interests, hobbies, favorite books, music, etc. If she asks you a question, answer it in a few, short sentences and then redirect the question back at her. This engages her in the conversation. When in doubt, compliment her like your hair looks nice today. Even if a girl does not like you yet, complimenting her will make her feel good about herself and think positively about you. However, if she keeps redirecting the conversation back to you, talk about yourself, otherwise it seems like you don't really want to be talking to her. ~ Yes think positive about her...even if she has bad habit of over shopping....shopping is good...shopping makes guy impotent..I hope you know that.
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    Try flirting! Don't be obsessive! If you both make eye contact, do not be the one to look away, but do not stare for too long. When you both make eye contact, just give a slight smile. Touch her arm or shoulder for a few seconds. Physical contact is a great way to show you're interested. If she seems uncomfortable, do not do it again. ~ I agree.TRUE
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    She may look away and she might blush a little. Be careful though; you don't want to stare her down. A good move is to look away, and if she likes you she will shoot you glances. Watch for that. And be courteous. Open doors. Do kind things, girls love that. ~ Ok Never tried that..so dont have much knowledge regarding this point...Kind things, we all love that.
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    Respect her friends and their ideas and opinions. Always speak highly of her and never talk trash about her. It will damage her reputation and yours. Hopefully then it will work both ways - she will be tolerant of your friends. Be careful not to compliment her friends too much, however. Example: You may say "Your friends seem cool. We should hang out with them and my friends some time, I think they'd get along". You may not say "Sally is so hot. She has the nicest eyes". You may think getting her jealous is a good idea, but it just makes them angry. ~ totally agree.
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    Have your friends be nice to her It's a fantastic thing when your friends don't make a total fool of you. Warn them ahead of time and avoid topics pertaining to embarrassing moments of your past or awkward jokes that make very little sense. Don't introduce her to your friends right away though. You want her to like you, not start dating one of your buddies. If your friends like to embarrass you, try to avoid them altogether. ~ thats bit tricky, thas why I like Shy girl, she will be to shy to get along with anyone new...increasing the chance to be with me more ..he he he haha ha hahah =)) 
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    Be polite to her parents. Be kind to everyone, especially them. Don't be too over-the-top charming with the parents, however, or they'll think that you have something to hide.Be willing make sure that you and her father get along as he will be looking out for his daughter. ~ Parents also ..oh my god...now how many more steps do I need to follow to impress the Girls parents??Noooo...someone spare me the torture..thats why we have arrange marriage in society.
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    Don't criticize her. Unless she asks for constructive criticism. And even then she probably wants you to compliment her. ~ correct...true ..I agree
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    Be romantic, but not over the top. If you've been dating for a while you may attempt a grand romantic gesture, otherwise, you'll look like a stalker. It's also okay to be a little cheesy, like giving her a bouquet of roses and a loving poem. It may sound like a bad idea, but girls will find it thoughtful if it came from your heart. A better idea than being cheesy is to really LISTEN to her and remember things she likes. Then take her somewhere she's mentioned wanting to go, or buy her the books she's been wanting and hide a little note inside. Flowers and candy are really cliche and don't really mean much since anyone can just buy someone flowers. Showing you've been listening to her wants and needs goes a LOT farther than roses!! ~ humm.....This thing happen, depends on the girl actually, as they are the one who actually control how the guy react.
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    Start talking to her casually. If you don't know her, make friendly conversation. Ask for the time, and/or compliment her watch. Avoid throwing too many compliments about clothes or shoes around: that might make women think that you are homosexual as many gay men are fashion-forward.~ True True True
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    Do not play "hard to get". Sure, you'll get their attention for a day or two then after a while, the girl will end up frustrated, and she'll think you don't find interest in her anymore. ~ True True True...applied for girls also..do not play hard to get, or else guy might end up frustrated.
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    Be careful with what you say. Do not discuss bodily functions in her presence, or make jokes of a sexual nature unless she starts doing so. Also, don't discuss anything gross or inappropriate. She'll get grossed out. ~ humm...ok...I think we should rather talk the same way as we talk with our male friends considering the point of gender equality.:P Why should boys have all the fun..
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    Hum in her presence.She might think of you whenever she hears that song. And she'll probably be impressed by your good taste in music. Some girls have actually dumped guys or stopped liking guys when they insulted the music they like. So, it's OK not to like her music, but don't be insulting her favorite singer(s) or band(s)! Try to figure out what music you BOTH like. ~  
    Oh my GOD, that would be torture. Please Be honest...if you don't like no need to say you like the music...cause the relation anyway will be temporary if you try being dishonest, well you can refrain yourself from saying or expressing your ideas in case its against situation.
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    Start an inside joke with her! She will feel included and become closer to you. It also gives you an easy-to-come-up-with conversation starter. Try not to overuse it and kill the joke. ~
    What is Inside joke and Outside joke? I am confused I need to study on this...inside outside joking stuff
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    End later meetings with a hug, or plans to meet some other time, if you can. Make sure to tell her that you enjoyed her company. ~ yes. or else why anyway you will be with her if you don't enjoy her...why only HUG? if she need a kiss give her one, after all she deserve it for the good time that she gave you.
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    Tell her that you "like her" frequently. Ask her out. ~
    he he he..All guys are smart enough, no need for this advice..its in guys DNA.
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    Touch her occasionally, like on the shoulder or hand. Be sure do not touch her private parts, however. ~ =))ha ha ha ......thats good advice DOC. We will follow your advice. well this is insane, I haven't seen this advice in the impress guy section...what if a girl suddenly touch guys private part..holy shit..what WIKIHOW thinks about guys....????ridiculous. well no one will like there private part being touched unless the relation is in that level. 
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    Opposites attract. Be a courageous gentleman, not coy like a lady might be. Stand up for her if something is wrong. ~ yes..be the man
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    Show your funny side. A lot of women look for sense of humor in a partner. You should however be mindful of their reactions to your jokes and avoid offensive humor. Unless they like that. Find out if she likes comedy. If she watches Comedy Central or other readily-accessible comedy, find out her favorite comedian or favorite impression and try something along the same lines for her. ~ HUmm...True
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    Make her feel good. This is a really good thing that impresses girls. They love it when you let them know you care for them. If she's sad, just simply put your arm around her neck. Make her happy as much as you can. Flirt with her, hold her hand it will make her feel special. ~ True, unless she consider neck also a piece of her private part. Few women/girl think there whole body to be a private part. 8-|
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    Don't ever make fun of your friends around her. If you do, it might make her think that you're a jerk. When someone makes fun of other people, it makes a woman wonder what they might be saying about HER when she's not around! ~ Not true...heee WIKIHOW, you dont know anything about girl...they like back bitching more then guys...>:D<
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    Be honest. Do something creative, something extraordinary or something that others never do. That creates a question mark for the girl about you, and it also makes you interesting. ~ That work best in JOB to get appraisal.
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    Be open. Don't share too many secrets with her. Sprinkle a little and don't irritate her asking repeated questions. Always keep your face glowing and charming. ~ This is good point
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    Don't ignore her. Don't ever ignore her messages such as through phone calls, text messages or Facebook. Make her feel like you always have time for her. ~ Never...never..IGNORE....that also a GIRL???Never....noooo...